What My Fantasies Have Told Me About Myself

...and how I've started using them to make changes in my life.

At the end of November, a few weeks before I came back to the US, I found myself wandering around the St. Giles Cathedral in Edinburgh.

I walked around looking at all the stone and symbolism, grateful for the break from the bitter cold of outside. I stood in front of the only statue of a woman that I saw my entire time in Edinburgh, which was not of the…