Language is a tricky thing.

I’ve been trying to make a shift in what language I use to describe my partnered naked activities.

When I was younger — and even sometimes today — I find myself describing my experiences and what I want sexually using language like “he f*cked me”, “I want to be f*cked”, “F*ck me harder” and perhaps the most problematic of them all, “F*ck me any way you …